Photos on the day or a separate session
There are two common approaches, and many families use both.
On the day of the ceremony. The advantage is that the child is already dressed, the family is together, and the church setting is part of the story. The challenge is time pressure, crowds, and any rules about photography inside the church.
A separate portrait session. Taking portraits on another day, before or after, is usually calmer. The child is fresh, the light can be chosen, and you can photograph in a park, a garden, or the church grounds if permitted. Some families do the session in the days before the ceremony so the outfit stays clean.
Check with your parish first
Photography rules differ from one church and parish to another. Some allow photos before and after the ceremony but not during Mass. Others restrict flash, movement, or the use of a hired photographer. Contact the parish office or the person coordinating the ceremony and ask:
- Is photography allowed during the ceremony, and where may photographers stand?
- Is flash permitted?
- Can we take photos inside the church before or after?
- Is an outside photographer allowed, and do they need permission?
- Is there a group photo planned by the parish?
Respect the answers. The photos are never more important than the ceremony.
Portrait ideas for the child
- A simple standing portrait. Soft light, plain background, and a natural smile.
- Seated portrait. On a bench or steps, hands folded or resting naturally.
- Walking. The child walking toward the camera or away on a path.
- Candid laughter. Ask a funny question to get real smiles.
- Looking down at hands. A quiet, reflective image.
- Twirl. A child in a dress or a suit jacket moving freely can give a joyful picture.
- With a favorite object. A small book, flower, or toy that suits the child.
Detail shots
Detail photos are easy to take in a few minutes and often become favorites.
- Rosary or religious medal.
- Candle, if one is used.
- Prayer book or Bible.
- The child’s shoes, gloves, or veil.
- Hands holding a bouquet or a candle.
- The invitation or certificate.
- Ribbon, buttons, or lace details from the outfit.
Place items on a clean, simple surface near a window or in soft shade. Avoid cluttered backgrounds.
Family, godparent and grandparent photos
Family photos are important for this milestone. Make a short list in advance:
- The child with both parents.
- The child with siblings.
- The child with godparents.
- The child with each set of grandparents.
- The whole extended family if possible.
Assign one relative to help gather people. Take the largest group first, and the smaller groupings quickly afterward. For ideas for arrangements that look relaxed, see our unique family photo poses. If you have siblings close in age, you may also find our twins photo ideas helpful.
Locations
- Church steps or entrance. If permitted, they make a natural backdrop.
- Church grounds or garden. Greenery and soft light.
- Local park. More space and comfortable light.
- Home. A front door, porch, or living room by a window.
- A place that matters. A family garden, a grandparents’ house, or a favorite spot.
Pick a place that feels respectful and comfortable for the child.
Outfit and prep tips
- Try the outfit on before the day and check the fit.
- Keep a spare set of tights, socks, or a clean shirt.
- Bring a brush, hairpins, tissues, and a lint roller.
- Use a garment bag to prevent wrinkles.
- Let the child eat before the photos and keep snacks away from the clothes.
- Pay attention to the weather. Bring a cover for veils and an umbrella.
- Keep jewelry and accessories simple.
Parents and relatives should choose modest, coordinated outfits that do not compete with the child’s clothing. Our guide to how to dress for a family photo shoot explains how to coordinate a group.
Candid moments and the party
After the ceremony, there are often meaningful moments:
- Hugs from grandparents.
- The child greeting friends and family.
- Cutting a cake or sharing a meal.
- Opening cards and small gifts.
- Siblings playing together.
- Parents watching proudly.
Ask a friend to take candids so a hired photographer or a parent can enjoy the day. If you have a phone or camera, take a few photos early, then put it away and be present.
A simple shot list
- Child alone, standing and seated.
- Child with parents.
- Child with siblings.
- Child with godparents.
- Child with grandparents.
- Whole family.
- Details: rosary, candle, book, shoes.
- Candid hugs and laughter.
- Party and cake.
A shorter option
If you want professional portraits without a long session, ask whether your local photographer offers a short session. Our article on what a mini photo session is explains how these work, and families sometimes use them for milestone portraits.
Frequently asked questions
Should we take photos before or after the ceremony?
Before can keep the outfit fresh, while after offers more natural moments. Check your parish for timing and rules.
Can we use flash in church?
It depends on the parish. Ask in advance, and use natural light when you can.
How long does a communion portrait session take?
Short sessions are common, especially with children. A calm, brief session is often better than a long one.
What should the child hold?
A small book, rosary, or flower can be nice, but check what is customary in your community.